I'm Tired of Being Sexy

Yeah I said it - and I'm not taking it back. Some men thinks it's cool to "compliment" a women and call her SEXY, but that's such an easy thing to say and it's also subjective to the beholder's eye. So, this was a rant, a plead if you will for men to come up with something different for once, because believe me, we've heard it all...


I'm tired of being sexy.
Believe me it's a blessing,
a gift I'm appreciative of, but a curse
wrapped so nicely,
tightly bound by a good shape
a nice face
and long legs
making y'all beg, plead, deceive
speed on that wave of hope that you'll achieve
one night.

But I'm tired of being sexy because there's MORE.
Surely I don't implore you to move with eyes wide shut
but I wish y'all would open up
cut past the obvious
I don't doubt how hard it is
yeah I know how wet it is
you don't think I work at this?

This shit ain't easy.
While you're trying to please me,
kiss these lips,
I'm trying to dismiss the myth
that we are limited to just "THIS".
While y'all throwing all these moves
I want to prove that there's more
than your temporary needs I can soothe.

Lemme provide lubrication to ease your mind.
Bind you into submission with my inner vision.
Make you cum to your senses
Prevent you from going over that
Bullshit fence called "I don't know, we're chilling, but you're cool....
let's keep it 'Gray'
What ever happened to Black and White?
This must be fun to y'all right?
And all we really hear is:
"I can fuck you right now, can wife you til my shit's tight"
It's like that song I heard, Sunshine got it right
she said I heard it all before....

And it's really a shame.
Can't say I blame you,
a lot of us women have the same views
I'm done hearing me complain too
But just once
a line like such
might make me hush for one moment like:
"Damn she got a fat BRAIN!"
"Did you see the LOYALTY on her?"
"Yo...she rode my EMOTIONS like crazy."

Please feel me...
This gets old for us.
Trust we enjoy the comments about our butts
how y'all damn near BUST off a memory of that
night of lust.
But just because we take our time
to look this FINE
doesn't mean you should feel less inclined
to find us to be a good catch
in reasonable time.

I know this sounds crazy....
A rookie on the fast track to vet status
barely attempting the apparatus.
But if settling for early pension
would release this neverending tension
then sign me up
and buy me a shirt that says
"I'm RE-fucking-TIRED of being SEXY.

But this ain't the song cry of one woman's regret
It's for the conglomerate,
of how pissed we ALL get
when these dudes we've met
are so stuck, so set
on how we look blessed
in our little black dress
since our everyday attire ain't a beater and some sweats
We remain perplexed
it's like y'all seem to forget
that there's more to the pie
than the cut y'all expect.

But don't stress...
and don't get all emotional
this don't have to be about you.
But you're familiar with that saying about FITTINGS and SHOES.
Get a clue.

Prove there's more you value
than how ROCK our presence gets you
STOP living in the moment
reality checks are overdue.

Realize
the girl with those thighs
could be your LIFELONG prize
and while you checkin' out her size
she staring DEAD in your eyes
Dying to be refreshingly surprised.

So pop quiz, masters of the night
this lessons been given clearly.
But then again....
did you even really hear me?